Stop telling yourself you can’t and start believing you can. I know it sounds cliche but let’s be honest your mindset is everything. Your thoughts are the loudest voice you hear and they cultivate your entire life. From the way you feel, to your motivation, to your actions. If you want something enough you need to believe it is possible. If you don’t believe in you; even if it happens, you’ll merely blame it on luck or feel like something unfortunate is due to happen. I know it may sound like a load of bs but honestly often we are our own biggest barriers. We prevent ourselves from growing. We prevent ourselves from achieving. There’s no reason you can’t be everything you want to be. You are capable. You can.